Be Still and Know

It’s the last day of a very troubling year for me.  I’m glad to see it come to an end. 

And, on top of that, my divorce is almost over!  It has been such a long time.  I haven’t talked about it that much on this blog, but today I think I’m going to share a few things.  I’ve been separated for a year and two months.  It was about 4 years prior to that when our troubles really started to happen.  To keep this as simple as possible, he had tried to cheat on me, and after that things just fell apart and never got better. 

Anyway, this year has been such a headache trying to deal with him.  He hasn’t exactly cooperated with me that much.  But, I was finally able to see a lawyer in Novemeber of this year, so now things should all be over soon (hopefully).  The crazy thing is that he moved in with a girlfriend sometime last spring.  And, I was recently told that he had told everyone that we were already divorced, and that he is engaged and ready to marry this other woman.  She has a ring and everything.  His friends and co-workers didn’t know he was still legally married, and I’m sure she didn’t either.  So, this adds a little insight into why it has been so difficult trying to deal with him this year. lol  This is stuff that happens on a bad Lifetime movie.

But, as I said, this is all almost over for me, and I can finally move on and fully heal.  So 2012 seems like a hopeful year for me, and one full of potential.